Monday, June 20, 2011

Are u really in love? What is a true great love?

Another long and yet worth it details on this thing amazing thing called LOVE!

A True Great Love? Can bear the pain and longitude of waiting even if it takes forever. When confused about love, follow your heart it may not always be right but you will have the memories to make you smile. If your head tells you one thing and your heart tells you another thing, before you decide, you should first think whether you have a better head or heart. Its okay to kiss a fool or let the fool kiss you but never let a kiss fool you. Don’t be ashamed to show love when you feel it because one day you might realize that love is already afraid to show itself to you. Nowadays, some guys are like angels, they easily forgive and forget, while some women are devils and players, they easily get and forget. To love someone is to have the courage to walk away and let go of the one who wishes to be free, no matter how much it hurts. Never say "I LOVE YOU" when you don’t even care. Never talk about feelings if they aren’t there. Never touch a heart if you mean to break it. Never look in the eyes if all you have to tell is a lie and never say Hello if you mean Goodbye. Love is like a butterfly the more you chase it the more it eludes you, but if you just let it fly, it would come to you, when the least you expect. On the course of love, people must teach their hearts to be brave enough to hold on when things go wrong, and to be brave enough to let go when they realized that things are not meant to be after all. Most relationships are like traffic signs: 1 way, 2 way. Do not enter, slippery when wet, no u-turn, no left turn, but what I like most is to give way. Words and heart should be handled with care; for words when spoken and hearts when broken are the hardest thing to repair. The simplest pick up line doesn’t have so many words, all I need is "I" for me to say it, "LOVE" for me to share it and "YOU" for me to give it. Don’t shed your tears for someone who hurt you. Don’t long for the person if they left. Don’t feel sorry if you fail when you try your best. Someone out there is far more deserving of your time and love. If I tell you "I LOVE YOU" you shouldn’t wonder why, or how, or since when, or for how long because I wouldn’t have a single answer except to say it again. In the name of love, it doesn’t really matter who won or lose, what’s important is that you know when to hold on and when to let go. It’s the presence of soul that makes us "Live" but it’s the presence of "Love" that makes us want to live. If your heart gets hurt by the time you truly love…don’t let go of the love for the person but let go of the person. You’ll never know love might be sweeter the second time around. It’s hard to find true love because you are too caught up looking for the perfect person. They don’t realize that love is not finding the perfect person but being the perfect person for someone else. Love knows no reason, love knows no lie, love defies all reason, love has no eyes, but love is not blind, they can see but they just don’t mind. We are sometimes afraid to say "I LOVE U" instead we say "I MISS U" but often misunderstood leaving the ones we love on which you don’t realized that it is also feeling same feeling like you do. Love not because the person is the only one but because the person is the one you are willing to give up everything because it’s worth fighting for. It’s hard to pretend to love someone that you don’t. But it’s harder to pretend you don’t love someone that you really do. Once you had love, you will always love. For what’s on your mind may escape, but what’s on your heart will always remain forever. Love is not how you forget but rather how you forgive. It is not how you listen but how you understand, but by what you say, but by what you do and not by what you receive but what you give. True love is yearning the person to be happy even if you won’t be the one that the person will share his/her happiness with. If you love someone, don’t hold back, never hide your feelings, never economize your love and most of all never take the person for granted because you will never know what you have till it’s gone. Sometimes we think that loving someone can be such a risky thing. How else would you win if you don’t take chances? You don’t lose by giving, you lose by holding back. Never try to impress someone to make him/her fall in-love with you ‘coz when you do, you will have to keep the standards for the rest of your life. Never rush in love, for it never runs out. Let love be the one to look for you so that when you start to fall, you will always know that the feeling is sure. Yes!!! It drives you crazy, it makes you mad, jealous, sad, it even causes you sleepless nights, breaks your heart. Well come to think of it? It is healthy to fall in love. True love is not when the hearts beats faster or fastest but when it beats no more and yet the love is still there. If you love a person with no reason at all, then you are using your heart. LOVE is not a word to say when we feel guilty, not the right word to say when we like a person…but love really matters when we share our thoughts, minds and hearts. Lastly, love can be worth fighting for and undying for if you both hold on and fight for it till the last breath counts.

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