Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Just another thought

Just another great thought that depicts on being contented of the love that you are receiving from your partner...Knowing your worth is good but giving all the love and understanding that you can is better to maintain a harmonious relationship. I don't intend to look for another...I intend to stay and I'm looking forward to forever...

"Being with someone doesn’t guarantee happiness. Finding your other half does. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been alone, how long you’ve hoped, or how long you’ve waited. There’s no such thing as a perfect love story. Heartaches will always be part of loving. But remember—Though not perfect—if love is meant for u, it will stick with you till the end. No matter how tough it gets, no matter how long….FAR from perfect—BUT REAL!"

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

i never saw blue…;-)

This is one of my favorite songs. Listening to this kind of song makes me appreciate the many blessings I have in my life. Thanks you Lord for everything!

Today we took a walk up the street,
Picked a flower and climb a hill above the lake
And secret thoughts, were said aloud,
We watched the faces in the clouds
Until the clouds have blown away
And were we ever somewhere else u know
Its hard to say

I never saw blue like that before.
the sky, around the world. You’ve given me all you have and more. And
no one else has ever showed me how. To see the world the way I see it
now. oh..I never saw blue like that before.

I can’t believe
A month the gold I was alone
I didn’t know u, I haven’t seen, or heard your name
And even now, I’m so amazed its like a dream
Its like a rainbow, its like the rain
And some things are the way they are and words just can’t explain ?

I never saw blue like that before.
the sky, around the world. You’ve given me all you have and more. And
no one else has ever showed me how. To see the world the way I see it
now. oh..I never saw blue like that before.

And it feels like now, and it feels like always,
And it feels like coming home

Monday, June 20, 2011

Are u really in love? What is a true great love?

Another long and yet worth it details on this thing amazing thing called LOVE!

A True Great Love? Can bear the pain and longitude of waiting even if it takes forever. When confused about love, follow your heart it may not always be right but you will have the memories to make you smile. If your head tells you one thing and your heart tells you another thing, before you decide, you should first think whether you have a better head or heart. Its okay to kiss a fool or let the fool kiss you but never let a kiss fool you. Don’t be ashamed to show love when you feel it because one day you might realize that love is already afraid to show itself to you. Nowadays, some guys are like angels, they easily forgive and forget, while some women are devils and players, they easily get and forget. To love someone is to have the courage to walk away and let go of the one who wishes to be free, no matter how much it hurts. Never say "I LOVE YOU" when you don’t even care. Never talk about feelings if they aren’t there. Never touch a heart if you mean to break it. Never look in the eyes if all you have to tell is a lie and never say Hello if you mean Goodbye. Love is like a butterfly the more you chase it the more it eludes you, but if you just let it fly, it would come to you, when the least you expect. On the course of love, people must teach their hearts to be brave enough to hold on when things go wrong, and to be brave enough to let go when they realized that things are not meant to be after all. Most relationships are like traffic signs: 1 way, 2 way. Do not enter, slippery when wet, no u-turn, no left turn, but what I like most is to give way. Words and heart should be handled with care; for words when spoken and hearts when broken are the hardest thing to repair. The simplest pick up line doesn’t have so many words, all I need is "I" for me to say it, "LOVE" for me to share it and "YOU" for me to give it. Don’t shed your tears for someone who hurt you. Don’t long for the person if they left. Don’t feel sorry if you fail when you try your best. Someone out there is far more deserving of your time and love. If I tell you "I LOVE YOU" you shouldn’t wonder why, or how, or since when, or for how long because I wouldn’t have a single answer except to say it again. In the name of love, it doesn’t really matter who won or lose, what’s important is that you know when to hold on and when to let go. It’s the presence of soul that makes us "Live" but it’s the presence of "Love" that makes us want to live. If your heart gets hurt by the time you truly love…don’t let go of the love for the person but let go of the person. You’ll never know love might be sweeter the second time around. It’s hard to find true love because you are too caught up looking for the perfect person. They don’t realize that love is not finding the perfect person but being the perfect person for someone else. Love knows no reason, love knows no lie, love defies all reason, love has no eyes, but love is not blind, they can see but they just don’t mind. We are sometimes afraid to say "I LOVE U" instead we say "I MISS U" but often misunderstood leaving the ones we love on which you don’t realized that it is also feeling same feeling like you do. Love not because the person is the only one but because the person is the one you are willing to give up everything because it’s worth fighting for. It’s hard to pretend to love someone that you don’t. But it’s harder to pretend you don’t love someone that you really do. Once you had love, you will always love. For what’s on your mind may escape, but what’s on your heart will always remain forever. Love is not how you forget but rather how you forgive. It is not how you listen but how you understand, but by what you say, but by what you do and not by what you receive but what you give. True love is yearning the person to be happy even if you won’t be the one that the person will share his/her happiness with. If you love someone, don’t hold back, never hide your feelings, never economize your love and most of all never take the person for granted because you will never know what you have till it’s gone. Sometimes we think that loving someone can be such a risky thing. How else would you win if you don’t take chances? You don’t lose by giving, you lose by holding back. Never try to impress someone to make him/her fall in-love with you ‘coz when you do, you will have to keep the standards for the rest of your life. Never rush in love, for it never runs out. Let love be the one to look for you so that when you start to fall, you will always know that the feeling is sure. Yes!!! It drives you crazy, it makes you mad, jealous, sad, it even causes you sleepless nights, breaks your heart. Well come to think of it? It is healthy to fall in love. True love is not when the hearts beats faster or fastest but when it beats no more and yet the love is still there. If you love a person with no reason at all, then you are using your heart. LOVE is not a word to say when we feel guilty, not the right word to say when we like a person…but love really matters when we share our thoughts, minds and hearts. Lastly, love can be worth fighting for and undying for if you both hold on and fight for it till the last breath counts.

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Payday Loans

Nowadays, since nothing is for free. Everything has a price. And your money is always not enough, I am thinking that life is slapping my face with the reality. Currently, staying at home cannot help at all. Even doing cash advance loans is requiring an individual to have a stable job. My friends in the US are also facing these difficulty. They have papers alright, but life in the States is really remarkably different from ours here in the Phils. Even payday loans in georgia , where my friend used to work; knows how hard it is to be considered since you would be needing to have a credit check. Having good credit rating nowadays is even harder to achieve. Nobody in the US can proclaim that he/she doesn't have a credit. They can't live without it. My friend from another state discussed payday loans in maryland in which a good credit rating is also a requirement.

If people in the US tend to be particular about their credit standing, does it mean that it is the price for being a 1st world country? Does it mean to say as well that if anybody wants to survive financially, one should rely on a credit? What is one doesn't have something to back them up in applying for a credit, would that mean they cannot build a credit at all? Ironic, but here in the Phils. A lot of people may drown in debts but still shows off that at least they can use their credit cards to pay for their everyday needs.

Saturday, June 18, 2011

Lessons on Love

Warning: This is quite long to read but mind you...you will really realize that some of the details are true. It may not be your personal experience, but I'm sure you have seen it on somebody else's shoe....enjoy the lessons!

You must learn that "affectional" love and individuals both have their limitations.

-Don’t let that feeling of boredom and routine creep in … Try to find ways to make the relationship exciting and most of all, keep in mind that in every situation the same familiar feeling will occur … it is just a cycle!

You feel you can only love that certain person you found, when in actuality there are ten thousand members of the opposite sex you would love even more if you ever met them, but, of course, you’ll never meet them all.

-Sometimes when one is in such a hurry to have a relationship, this happens. Don’t take the plunge if that is the case!

A realistic lasting love is a "we" feeling. You must learn that love and individuals both have their limitations.

-Always be considerate of your partner . Remember, no other person can understand you better!

Do you see yourself when you look in your partner’s eyes?

-A metaphor… if you don’t sense a strong compatibility with your partner,
you’re better off with someone else.

Do you and your partner each respect each other as individuals?

-Either one sided or no mutual respect = time to leave.

Does your partner serve as an important resource for you in a way that you care about?

-If your partner does little to enhance your life and you wouldn’t lose anything important to you by leaving, then leave. You’ll break even by being on your own and gain tremendously by finding someone else who is a resource to you.

Does your relationship have the demonstrated capacity for forgiveness?

-If you can’t forgive each other’s transgressions, then resentment will gradually replace love.

Do you and your partner have fun together?

-A relationship that’s no fun is dead.

Do you and your partner have mutual goals and dreams for your future together?

-If you aren’t planning to spend your future together, something’s terribly wrong. Time to take off.

How do you keep the love alive?

-Be intimate with one another – share secrets and affection; this is a relationship, not a one-night stand.

What is more exciting and exhilarating than falling in love? Is there anything?

-Falling in love can be the start of a loving relationship, but lasting relationships don’t just happen; they grow. In many ways nurturing a relationship is like tending a garden. Neglect it and it dies. Constant care and cultivation – including the following suggestions – are needed to keep love alive and growing.

-One of the chief ingredients of love is to give another person your presence. Without presence, love receives an invitation to die.

-Presence is not only spending physical time with another person but also giving him or her your undivided attention when you are with them.

-It includes being sensitive to his/her feelings and aware of his/her needs. It means not only hearing with your ears but, much more so, hearing with your heart.

-Love is accepting responsibility. Most of us bring the excess baggage of unresolved issues from the past into our close relationships. If we desire to stay in love, it is imperative that each of us accepts the responsibility for resolving our inner conflicts that cause dissension in our present relationships. We were not responsible for our upbringing but we are now totally responsible for what we do about resolving any negative effects our past had on us.

-Love is more than sex. It is much more than a physical relationship and also emotional. The man who ignores the emotional needs of his partner and expects to receive a warm response in bed is inviting frustration. Women are not machine to be turned on at will.

-Love is a commitment. Love that lasts is a commitment of one imperfect person to another imperfect person. It means that no matter what, I am committed to you and to your growth. I will be what you need me to be – not necessarily what you want me to be.

-I guess I’d still feel uncomfortable being alone for a long period of time, but I think the goal isn’t not feeling uncomfortable but being able to go on with my life, and this is something I’ve done already. You feel so proud of yourself afterwards!! You show yourself how strong you can become. I want to be something. I don’t want to just have something to make up for it. So I’m working on ways to help myself grow and do my own thing. ::sigh:: and while it does feel nice. Well, it is one of the hardest things I’ve ever done so far…

If your relationship does not deliver all the levels you expected, then the negative gap opens and degenerates, a gap that widens as you find that what you expected and what you actually see and feel are two different things.

-You need to stop dreaming the impossible dream and having impossible expectations of utopia. Instead you wind up disillusioned, disappointed and crushed by the whole thing.

-You erroneously feel that your expectations were realistic, but you just had the wrong person.

-This myth is very painful to give up. Reality intrudes.

Singles now seek a partner as an embodiment of all their unrealistic fantasies.

-When the partner cannot live up to these unrealistic expectations, they part bitterly.

You must learn to love life, to learn to grow and change.

-When you learn to love life, to love growth and aliveness in general, love children, love ideas, and to love a man or woman, you find you can love many things and many times. Love and love again; with mature, realistic expectations.

Sunday, June 12, 2011

Lessons when.....


It teaches you that evryone makes mistakes. When you are wronged, the most virtuous thing you can do is forgive the offender w/o pretense. Forgive those who have hurt us is the most difficult & courageous thing we can do.


It teaches you that resisting temptation is man’s greatest challenge. Be vigilant in your existence against all temptation. By doing so you will be rewarded w/ an enduring sense of satisfaction far greater than the temporary pleasure by which you were tempted.


It teaches you that greed is the root of all evil. Aspire to make your dreams come true, no matter how lofty they may be. Do not feel guilty about your success, but never let an obsession w/ achieving your goals lead you to engage in malevolent activities.


It teaches you dat nobody s perfect. Accept people for their merits & b tolerant of their flaws. Do not ever reject someone for imperfections over which they have no contol.


It teaches you that things aren’t always as they seem. The truth is often far beneath the surface. Look through the masks people wear if you want 2 know their heart. And remove your own masks to let people know yours.


It teaches you that nothng is forever. Always appreciate what you have, for you never know when you might lose it. And never ever take your friends & famly forgranted because they’re the only guarantee you have.


It teaches u that the human state is a fragile one. Protect & take care of your body the best that you can, it’s the only thing you are sure to have forever.


it teaches you that no 2 people are alike. When you encounter people who are different from you, don’t judge them by how they look or act; instead base ur opinion on the contents of their heart.


It teaches you that loving someone doesn’t always mean that person wil love u back. But don’t turn your back on love because when you find the right person, the joy that one person brings will make up for all the past hurts put together. A hundredfold!


Wednesday, June 8, 2011

On life

I love sunsets. It makes me realize that everything has an ending. If good things have to end, we sigh. But at least whenever odd and terrible situations occur, we can hope for the better. When I was young, I always ponder why it had to be that way. Now that I am older, I can answer that God has his own way of proving to us that He works in mysterious ways. I am a believer of God's existence. I believe that everything that is happening in our lives has reasons. I want to be ready for the future. I sometimes think of enrolling in those xLife life insurance programs for me to be assured. Unfortunately, I don't have the money to fulfill dues for those stuff. But since I am a very faithful believer of God. For now I just submit myself to Him and always pray that He gives me more time to be alive to learn from all His trials and move on with my so called Life

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

It all happened at 3AM

This is my story...this is the poem I've written years ago that made me start to think that words do really get into your mind at 3 AM...this is from my archive of poetry...

it all happened @ 3AM.;-)


Whirling around

Turning upside down

Flowing rapidly through this crown

Tarsier eyes glowing in the dark lost in space in the park

The emptiness of the dripping water

Gently surpassable with in the ticking of an hour

With rhythm sounding like the house gecko

Scratching the snore in an echo

Pests doesn’t mind being startled

As long as there are no snakes that will show up and say: "Behold here is an apple"

Is it reigning in my veins? Or mainly the tick tock of this wretched brain

Maybe? This one sided hair is bringing this crown heavy

I don’t know, perhaps the mosquito bites are driving me crazy

The sound so silent? Not quite. It’s just not day because it’s night

My world may not be theirs

Well, I’ve given up such black and white movie..who cares?

So many writings need blossoming moves

Yet this heavy crown is wandering and so it proves

Papers filling up the garbage cellophane

with melancholy for undying pain

Wishes were not obtain, only to find out I am in vain

History declares past, yet haunting memories are vast

Time remaining is definitely short, yet tear doesn’t leave me in this court

Occupying the hard wooden seat, good thing it helps in relaxing my feet

And what am I blabbering about? Mystical emotion that’s been pending and wants to be out

Wines glasses & candle sticks may count my days astray and far from it’s peak

Software mechanics & gastric juices have conquered this world’s cruises

Scattered glasses & guitar strings, glued and twined fit for a king

Shining in the rendezvous, awed me in this kaleidoscopic view

Circling paths of hot cocoa, stirred up and creates a delicious choco

By the pricking of the hands, I just wanna swim in the pan

Purple violets and blue, the bed is calling me curly sue

Annoying sound of things around but my, oh my…it’s 3 AM and what am I doing in this pound?

The lights outside doesn’t want to peek, especially if I’m still awake thinking like a geek

So my dear happy feet, I am off to bed to let my crown imagine dreams so sweet

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